What do you do with a guy who lets his daughter lie, and then he breaks up with you because he believes her lies -- screaming at me like a maniac --meanwhile, I have clothes shoes coats and more stuff at his house, and I don't want to go there to get them. I have been with him for 7 years, and his children have been trying to break us up for all that time --his daughter is a jealous sick girl, but he idolizes her and stand at attention on her every word -- please answer this for me

Since he broke up with you, ask him calmly and rationally to drop off your belongings. If you do not want to see him at all, you could suggest he send them to you via UPS. Keep the request simple and practical. Do not let the conflict around you distract from getting your things back. Make the arrangement clear and firm. Your goal is to recover your property without reopening the fight. If you don't trust him to return everything you left with him, your best bet is to call him

That gives you more control and lowers the chance of another blowup. Take someone with you if that makes you feel safer. The less contact you have, the easier it will be to keep this straightforward. Whatever you do, don't raise your voice or be pulled into an argument. It's not worth it. This situation is already emotional, but getting dragged into another fight will only make it worse. Keep your tone steady and your message clear so the focus stays on the practical issue.

Do not give him or his daughter any more material to work with. Stay calm and finish the business. From the situation you describe, it sounds like this guy did you a huge favor. You have been with him for 7 years, and if he is willing to break up over lies and family drama, that says a lot. Get your belongings, protect your peace, and treat this as a clean exit. You do not need to keep fighting for someone who will not stand up for you. Wishing you all the very best.